Some things a mother of a teenager daughter should know during the fall break:
- The speed of words per minute when friends come over
- What's for lunch
- Who is the cutest guy in musically
- Why teachers are evil
- Which teachers are ok
- The number of snapchat streaks
- What's for snack
- How many pages to read for history homework
- Why sprint is better than mini-marathon
- The shortness of the break
- How not to open a closed door
- The volume of voice in playing board games
- The amount of laughter that can fill a room
- The best colors of jackets
- The worst colors of jackets
- The best shoes
- The worst shoes
- Why pizza is better than vegetables
- The importance of smiling
- How to say "no" so it's accepted
- The variable of "yes" in equations
- The square meters of the apartment
- The thickness of walls
- How to be invisible
- How to be available
- How to curate your words
- How to bite your tongue
- Reasons for not saying anything
- Ways to be non-judgmental
- Which century you were born
- Memory of your own teenage years
- The history of friendship
- The parent do-s and do not-s
- The need for cash
- The need for ice-cream
- The need for loud music
- Where snacks are stacked
- The amount of energy needed for charging phones
- Who follows whom on Instagram
- The basic of filters
- The basic of hashtags
- What's for dinner
- How to fit three girls to have a sleepover in a small room
- What's for midnight snack
- The rule of staying up very late
- What it feels to be 13 or 14 and stay in PJs in the morning
- And wrap yourself in a blanket and sit on a kitchen floor
- To drink cocoa and eat chicken nuggets for breakfast
- The power of breath
- The distance of a whisper*
*borrowed directly from the mentor text
That's some list! Apparently I will have a lot to learn in the next few years.
ReplyDeleteThis is quite a list. Don't know if I could have mastered any of these items.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing like being a mom to a teenager. If I had to pick one, "how to bite your tongue" would be my pick. My daughter is almost 21 and much of this has changed. But every now and again I have to remember #28 and #29.
ReplyDeleteTerje, I love this list, especially #s10-13, 24-29, 34-36 and 46-48. And of course, I had to check out your mentor text.
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