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Showing posts with label quote. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Quote


"If you have something to say, then say it. If not, enjoy the silence while it lasts. The noise will return soon enough. In the meantime, youʼre better off going out into the big, wide world, having some adventures, and refilling your well." 

Hugh MacLeod


Saturday, October 4, 2014

A quote


“Let us read, and let us dance; these two amusements will 

never do any harm to the world.” - Voltaire 

Monday, September 29, 2014

Quote

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” ― Albert Einstein

Saturday, September 6, 2014

A quote

“Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect.” 
~Unknown

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Advice from the seasoned writers, doubt from the beginner




I sit on a couch reading on my Kindle, occasionally putting it down, sipping peppermint tea, and watching angry clouds racing above wind-tormented trees. “Bird by Bird” and “Views from a Window Seat” invited me to be in the company of wise writers, listening to their stories and thoughts. I had been thirsty for the words of Anne Lamott and Jeannine Atkins, reading one book right after another. Their words swirl in my head. Educating, enjoyable, touching words. Yet, a doubt creeps up unexpectedly. Would their words help me - a rather novice writer, or any other adult just starting out on their writing journey?

Anne Lamott and Jeannine Atkins say that the most important thing in writing is to just sit down and write. They share that even when faced with struggles, worries, fears, doubts, failures, mistakes and disappointment, they keep a pencil on a paper and the fingers on a keyboard, writing daily, for longer periods of time, letting the words pour out without qualification, restrictions and selections. Only later will the process of weeding and nourishing begin. From their experience they know that eventually the right words will come.
They tell the truth.
Their truth.
After hours, days, months, weeks, years, and decades of writing, having revised, edited, published and learned from the experiences they are convinced that sentences will flow forming coherent texts conveying soul-touching ideas and living images. This is what happens when they write.

The beginner truth is different. The words do not come just by sitting and writing.
It is easy to say ‘write what you see’ or ‘write with full honesty’ but this advice doesn’t help the beginner. The problem in the first place is that the beginner does not know how to make the lifeless come alive or what words to use to express inner thoughts. Adding a list of adjectives or witty verbs isn’t enough. Every beginner would love the characters whisper to them and lead the story but it’s more probable that for them characters feel like flat lifeless paper dolls. The beginner may know about the plot mountain, character development, signposts, literary devices, text structure, themes, genres, nifty craft moves, and fancy words but it’s not enough. They can write for hours but only bland words, hazy vision and scrambled texts appear on the paper or screen.

To write great it’s not enough to have just daily hours of writing.

First there has to be an unbearable need to write. Not a thought like “everybody writes, so will I” but an unexplainable need to live life through written words, almost “I can’t live without writing” feeling. Passion drives the writing more than the word count.
Second writers need keen eyes and sharp ears, a sense of sound and taste of letters. Not a long list of vocabulary or fast thesaurus flipping skills, rather an ability to choose and match words that start breathing on their own. The goal is to create texts that stir emotions and become permanently part of reader’s thought matrix.
Third the writers need high tolerance for pain. Not in a sense that they can write gross scenes without flinching, but rather willingness to dig deep to the soul, share what matters to them most and be ready that others may reject what is precious to them.

Considering writing from this point of view beginner would quit writing before starting. I searched for reasoning that would help to overcome the “I am not a writer. It’s too late to start. I will never be as good as real writers.” 

I don’t know whether one is born a writer or grows into one.
I know that all the experienced writers were beginners once.
I also know that learning to write well is useful not just for writers. Anyone can benefit from writing, whether they use the writing to share or gain something publicly, or write privately to remember and sort experiences, feelings and thoughts. 
I believe that with practice and following rules, advice and examples everyone can learn to write reasonably well and engagingly.
The only way to learn and become better at writing is to write.
Maybe out of the writing practice and experience the passion will grow.
Not everyone has to become great and famous. That is not the reason to write.
Maybe beginners need a little hope that they will get past the “blah” and experience some joy from the words they have put on the paper.
Without trying they will never find out what they are capable of.

I take another sip of tea and reach for my writer’s notebook. I know that I will return to both books but now it’s my turn to write. First some quotes and then my slice.

“We can accept, and some days even treasure, who we are, but sometimes we should tramp into new territory and aim for different notes, volumes, and rhythms.”
Jeannine Atkins

“I don’t think you have time to waste not writing because you are afraid.”
Anne Lamott

“The trick is to keep a spirit of play.”
Jeannine Atkins

“ It (writing) is a matter of persistence and faith and hard work. So you might as well just go ahead and get started.”
Anne Lamott



Sunday, March 23, 2014

Quote

“Live your life for you not for anyone else. Don’t let the fear of being judged, rejected or disliked stop you from being yourself.” ~Sonya Parker

Friday, February 7, 2014

quote


"Owning our STORY and 
loving ourselves through that process 
is the bravest thing that we will ever do."

-Brene Brown, from The Gifts of Imperfection


from 2010 interview with Brene Brown



Thursday, November 28, 2013

Quotes

“Comparison is the thief of joy.” —Theodore Roosevelt

“Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.” ~Unknown


Saturday, October 26, 2013

Quote

“Excellence can be obtained if you care more than others think is wise, risk more than others think is safe, dream more than others think is practical, expect more than others think is possible.”
Unknown

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

A quote

A good laugh and a long sleep are the two best cures for anything.

Irish proverb

Thursday, September 26, 2013

A quote

“You can’t use up creativity. The more you use it, the more you have.” 
 Maya Angelou 

Sunday, September 8, 2013

quote

“And above all, 
watch with glittering eyes 
the whole world around you 
because the greatest secrets 
are always hidden 
in the most unlikely places.
Those who don't believe in magic 
will never find it.”

Roald Dahl

Friday, August 30, 2013

quote

“Don’t be pushed by your problems; be led by your dreams.” ~Unknown

Sunday, August 18, 2013

A quote

Decision is the spark that ignites action. Until a decision is made nothing happens.
by Wilfred A. Peterson

Friday, August 2, 2013

A quote

“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest good intention.” ~Oscar Wilde

Thursday, May 23, 2013

A quote

“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.” 
~Maya Angelou

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

no owls, just words (OLW)


Yep. I agreed with my sister when she showed me this cartoon. It made us both smile.
Over at Two Writing Teachers Stacy reminded people about One Little Word.

During the week "To choose or not to choose" changed into "How to choose?"
You would think that choosing one word is easy. For some it seems to be easy. People live thoughtful lives and are aware of their needs and state of mind. The words seem to float around and pop up at the right moment.

Here I am today, gone through the process of choosing and I think I have my word. No, it was not easy. (It wasn't simple last year either.)

I read blog posts and lists of words hoping that some would speak to me. I didn't count how many wonderful words I saw. All what people said made sense. But the words smiled and waved at me. Some of them winked and promised to cross my path this year.

Like last year I thought of using the dictionary. This time I opened it at random.
Bon-bon? Jellyfish? Make-believe? Worrywart? Yodel?
No, thank you.

Choosing the word was not easy. Let me correct myself. Figuring out what I needed or wanted was not easy. 2012 was a bit confusing year for me. Lots of wonderful people and times, but too much stress. Learning, writing, dancing, reading, playing, family and friends - all of this I chose to remember from last year.  Being in charge of PYP self-study and evaluation at school, turning forty, letting some parents rock my self-belief, unexpectedly getting a combined class with very diverse needs, increased work load, - all that kind of squeezed me empty and left me overwhelmed  What words would help me now?

"Sorting" and "sifting" came to present themselves. I promised to stay friends but then we departed.
"Ahead" and "forward" invited me along. I almost went with them.
"Refresh" and "reconnect" gave me suggestions. I appreciated their advice.
Honestly, it felt kind of sad.

I realized what I had lost and needed back in my life. I opened my door and my OLW entered:

Spark

Cheerful and happy I searched for some quotes to strengthen our bond. We (Spark and I) picked four:




That's big, but we'll take it anyway.


Dante Alighieri


We like the potential of it.




That sound just about right for us.

Our favorite is the last one: